FAQ

🏳️‍🌈LGBTQIA+ FAQ & Resource Page
Because belonging begins with understanding.
What does LGBTQIA+ stand for?
LGBTQIA+ is an acronym that represents a diverse spectrum of identities:
L – Lesbian
G – Gay
B – Bisexual
T – Transgender
Q – Queer and/or Questioning
I – Intersex
A – Asexual, Aromantic, and Agender (and sometimes Ally)
+ – An inclusive symbol for all other sexualities, genders, and identities not listed above.
What does “queer” mean? Is it okay to use that word?
"Queer" is an umbrella term many people in the LGBTQIA+ community use to describe themselves. It can include people who are gay, bi, trans, nonbinary, or anyone who doesn’t fit into straight/cisgender norms.
👉 Some older generations may remember "queer" as a slur, but today it’s widely reclaimed. Always respect how someone identifies, and when in doubt, ask.
What’s the difference between sex, gender, and sexuality?
Sex: Refers to biological traits like chromosomes, hormones, and anatomy (assigned at birth).
Gender: A personal, internal sense of identity—like being a man, woman, both, neither, or something else entirely.
Sexuality (or sexual orientation): Who you're romantically or sexually attracted to (or not attracted to at all).
These three things are not the same, and they can vary independently for each person.
What does it mean to be transgender or nonbinary?
Transgender (or trans) people have a gender identity that doesn’t match the sex they were assigned at birth.
Nonbinary people don’t identify exclusively as male or female—they may identify as both, neither, or fluid between genders.
👉 Some trans people take hormones or have surgery, and some do not. All gender identities are valid.
What does intersex mean?
Intersex people are born with natural variations in sex traits (like chromosomes, genitals, or hormones) that don’t fit typical definitions of male or female. Intersex people have existed throughout history—and being intersex is not rare.
What does asexual mean?
Asexual (or ace) people experience little or no sexual attraction. Some asexual people have romantic relationships, some don’t. Just like everyone else, their experiences and desires are diverse and valid.
Why is Pride important in a small town like Milton?
LGBTQIA+ people live in every town, including Milton. Pride events offer:
Visibility for those who often feel invisible.
Connection for people who feel alone.
Celebration of diversity, resilience, and joy.
Education for allies, families, and neighbors.
🏳️‍🌈 Pride is more than a term, it’s about community, safety, and belonging.
I’m an ally. What can I do to support?
We’re so glad you’re here! Here’s how to show up:
Listen and learn—especially from LGBTQIA+ voices.
Use inclusive language and correct pronouns.
Speak up against bullying, hate, or misinformation.
Show up at Pride events and affirming spaces.
Donate to support local efforts like Milton VT Pride!
Even small actions can make a big difference.
📚 Definitions Glossary
Cisgender: A person whose gender identity matches the sex they were assigned at birth.
Gender Identity: How a person feels and identifies on the inside (man, woman, nonbinary, etc.).
Gender Expression: How a person presents their gender (clothes, hair, voice, etc.).
Coming Out: The process of sharing one’s identity with others—it’s personal and ongoing.
Chosen Family: Supportive relationships that aren’t biological but are deeply meaningful.
Pronouns: Words like “she/her,” “he/him,” or “they/them” that reflect a person’s gender.
🏠 Local Support & Resources
Outright Vermont – Support for LGBTQ+ youth - Click Here
Pride Center of Vermont – Health, advocacy, and community events - Click Here
GLAD – Legal support for LGBTQ+ rights in New England - Click Here
Trevor Project – Crisis & suicide prevention for LGBTQIA+ youth - Click Here
Milton Family Community Center – Inclusive, family-friendly community services - Click Here
We’re proud to be your neighbors. If you ever have questions or want to connect, just reach out.

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